Monday, January 11, 2010
Living A Double Life
I know we all have seen real life stories on T.V. about people who live two different lives. So, I started to wonder who are these people that live their lives like a story strait from the soaps. I have done my research , by no means am I a MD. but common since does goes a long way.
First, let get one thing strait. These people that live double lives are worst then cheaters.Cheaters will lie to there women or man. People who lead double lives will lie to everyone close to them and create a new life of all lies. These people are Sociopaths. Beware it’s a fine line. For those out there who only understand web talk I will sum it .
Sociopath
Pathological lying- If your mans or women have no family and only goes by Clark Kent. That’s a problem
Strong sense of self- Believes they have the right to the money in the bank and they have no bank account ever. To read more click the link below
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Friday, January 8, 2010
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The other day my attention was turned to the subject of cheating and it was
getting heat. What lit the match was the suggestion that men “cheat down”
(with less attractive women) and women “cheat up” (with men who make
more money and more moves than their current boyfriend or husband).
Interesting.
As a married man for the past 11 years, I thought for a moment that perhaps
I should just walk around this bed of hot coals. After all, I wouldn’t want
someone in my household to “misunderstand” my casual observations on the
subject and turn them into a self-incriminating indictment. But as you can
see, I defied the wifestyle and decided to do the barefoot fire walk over the
hot coals anyway. I do suggest that my married male readers live vicariously
through me and not get baited into this conversation with your wife. I’ll take
this one for the team.
On with it. The idea that men cheat down and women cheat up seemed too
easy. I certainly recognize where the suggestion comes from — married
women. And it rings with a smidgen of truth. But to believe it’s that simple is
like pretending you’re sitting in a remedial basic math class when you’re
actually sitting in AP calculus. It’s complicated.
That said, most women who cheat probably do seek an upgrade, but there are
plenty of exceptions. When cougars (and pumas) attack, for example, all bets
are off. Men, on the other hand, are way more unpredictable. Let’s keep in
mind that plenty of men don’t cheat. But for those who do, certainly, a lot of
them indeed cheat down. However, others cheat up, cheat across, cheat
diagonal, cheat standing still. They cheat. Connect Four. Name the game.
Cheating men play it. Show me a room full of cheating men and I’ll show you a
chess board; different players moving different ways, some with more
latitude than others.
Look, I understand the attraction to a good one-liner like men cheat down
and women cheat up. It’s easy. It’s kind of funny. It makes for good gab. But
this idea that a man is simply looking for a jump-off to back that ... up while a
woman is on a mission for a man who can pack that ... up and fly her to
exotic locales is exaggerated. When it comes to cheating, men and women are
more similar than they are different. Where the contrast lies is how the two
genders are viewed by society. Men who cheat are seen as the next
contestant on Maury Povich, while women who cheat usually get the “sit
down and let’s talk about it” Oprah treatment. Cheating is cheating, whether
you’re going up, going down, going in or going to Cabo. It is what it is.
LEAVE A COMMENT I WANT TO HEAR WHAT YOU THINK !!!!
Forubyu.com
The other day my attention was turned to the subject of cheating and it was
getting heat. What lit the match was the suggestion that men “cheat down”
(with less attractive women) and women “cheat up” (with men who make
more money and more moves than their current boyfriend or husband).
Interesting.
As a married man for the past 11 years, I thought for a moment that perhaps
I should just walk around this bed of hot coals. After all, I wouldn’t want
someone in my household to “misunderstand” my casual observations on the
subject and turn them into a self-incriminating indictment. But as you can
see, I defied the wifestyle and decided to do the barefoot fire walk over the
hot coals anyway. I do suggest that my married male readers live vicariously
through me and not get baited into this conversation with your wife. I’ll take
this one for the team.
On with it. The idea that men cheat down and women cheat up seemed too
easy. I certainly recognize where the suggestion comes from — married
women. And it rings with a smidgen of truth. But to believe it’s that simple is
like pretending you’re sitting in a remedial basic math class when you’re
actually sitting in AP calculus. It’s complicated.
That said, most women who cheat probably do seek an upgrade, but there are
plenty of exceptions. When cougars (and pumas) attack, for example, all bets
are off. Men, on the other hand, are way more unpredictable. Let’s keep in
mind that plenty of men don’t cheat. But for those who do, certainly, a lot of
them indeed cheat down. However, others cheat up, cheat across, cheat
diagonal, cheat standing still. They cheat. Connect Four. Name the game.
Cheating men play it. Show me a room full of cheating men and I’ll show you a
chess board; different players moving different ways, some with more
latitude than others.
Look, I understand the attraction to a good one-liner like men cheat down
and women cheat up. It’s easy. It’s kind of funny. It makes for good gab. But
this idea that a man is simply looking for a jump-off to back that ... up while a
woman is on a mission for a man who can pack that ... up and fly her to
exotic locales is exaggerated. When it comes to cheating, men and women are
more similar than they are different. Where the contrast lies is how the two
genders are viewed by society. Men who cheat are seen as the next
contestant on Maury Povich, while women who cheat usually get the “sit
down and let’s talk about it” Oprah treatment. Cheating is cheating, whether
you’re going up, going down, going in or going to Cabo. It is what it is.
LEAVE A COMMENT I WANT TO HEAR WHAT YOU THINK !!!!
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